Help should be given anonymously ,really ?

After the last encounter with my classmate, I was kinda unnerved. During lunch I brought up the subject again , because I believe Some people can't believe in themselves until someone else believes in them first. Maybe that's her problem I told my buddies & all of them go .... 'drop it ... she's going through depression, she needs professional help'

But isnt that the point? What she needs most is some support from friends. No? Everyone believe , it's too late .... it's the middle of the exams & the tension is too great. I make it a point to talk to her again after the exams.

My buddies warned me to hands off. Why? I wont understand what she's going through they reasoned. Well I think they are wrong. I'm not as sheltered as they think I am. I believe we should all support each other in times of need. Then they ask me, why didn't I go say hi to her all these years?

Well that's a fair question. Why indeed? I've got to say, she's very different from me. She's quiet & intense & she looked scared all the time. I feel uncomfortable near her, but that's before. Now I wanted to help her. Buddies said I should help people anonymously- that's the way to do it. Really? Come to think of it, it makes sense. I've very smart buddies :))

Not everyone will be ok ???

I bump into a classmate, she dropped a book & look so lost. In fact she looked as if she has not slept for days or washed her hair. She saw me starring, & look quite shy. Told me she is going to wash her hair later. Boy... I have no intention to make her feel awkward.

Anyway I ask her what's up? I know exams is here, but .... Then she said something very unexpected. Something like "I'm not like you. I feel like an idiot. But I'm an idiot, so that kinda works out" you. My God, where did that came from. Exams nerves???? I quickly reassure her everything's going to be fine, plus it's just mid year. She just go "yeah right, easy for you to say." then she quickly made an excuse & almost ran away!

Told my buddies  about her, & they advice me not to go around telling people 'everything is going to be ok!' Because that does not apply to everyone! wow !!!!

Great Advice from Captain Jack Sparrow (Pirates of the Caribbean)

I'm seriously very worry about my exams. So I watched an old favorite movie to distress. Pirates of the Caribbean. I love the movie, Johnny Depp is funny like hell & ohhh.... my favorite Orlando Bloom, he's so handsome- loved him.

Captain Jack Sparrow said " I'm dishonest, and a dishonest man you can always trust to be dishonest... Honestly, it's the honest ones you want to watch out for, because you can never predict when they're going to do something incredibly...stupid." Haha... I love it. Dad was watching it with me & he too agree that was one piece of good advice!

Hmmm... has dad being duped by a honest man ? Cant imagine, dad is very successful & mum always said he's too smart sometimes. Haha... wonder what that means, anyway, I'll make it a point to be careful of people who "appears" to be honest in the future :))